Ebru and Rubens began collaborating after meeting at a professional training in London in 2024, where they quickly recognised the complementary nature of their backgrounds and approaches. Their first workshop together confirmed a strong natural synergy in the way they teach, facilitate and hold transformational space.

Ebru brings over two decades of spiritual practice and is the Founder of Future Human Temple. Her work integrates trauma-informed bodywork, Tantra–Tao arts, ritual and somatic practices, with a strong emphasis on consent, nervous system regulation and embodiment.

Rubens specialises in sensual massage and Tantra–Tao bodywork, with a focus on body-to-body touch, conscious intimacy, and embodied connection. His work supports individuals and couples in deepening trust, presence, and relational awareness through intentional touch.

Together, they create workshops that balance structure with spontaneity, depth with playfulness, and education with lived embodied experience.

Their shared mission is to create inclusive, consent-led spaces where participants can explore connection, intimacy and self-discovery in ways that feel grounded, respectful and authentic.

Participants attend either as couples or through a matchmaking process that takes place well before the workshop. Those matched are strongly encouraged to meet in person and have at least one video call beforehand. By the time they arrive, they have already taken responsibility for building trust and alignment.

Consent is woven throughout the entire day. We begin with a group conversation around boundaries, bodily signals and personal agency. Participants learn to communicate clear yeses, nos and maybes, first individually and then with their partner. This conversation is revisited after each demonstration, once everyone has clarity about what will be taught.

Safety is continuously supported through a trauma-informed approach, nervous system awareness, and a strong emphasis on slowing down. Pausing and stillness are honoured as powerful practices in themselves. Participants are always encouraged to adjust, pause, or opt out at any point.

At the end of the workshop, we close with a sharing circle where we talk about self-care and aftercare, and what that might look like in the days and weeks following the experience. When the nervous system has been activated at such depth and the heart has been opened, it’s natural to feel more sensitive or reflective afterwards. Taking time for gentle integration, rest, and self-awareness can be an important part of the process, allowing the experience to settle and continue supporting yourself beyond the workshop itself.

This workshop is intentionally entry-level and beginner-friendly, though we often find that experienced practitioners and massage professionals gain just as much from it. Even for those well-versed in bodywork, the emphasis on slowing down, presence, and conscious touch often brings surprising depth. More advanced practices, such as yoni, lingam, and prostate massage, will be offered in future workshops for those who wish to explore further.

The atmosphere is warm, welcoming, and deeply human. Some participants come from Ebru’s Future Human Temple community, others through Ruben’s work, and some are completely new to this world. All are welcomed exactly as they are.

Nudity is welcome but never required. Couples are encouraged to listen inwardly and choose what feels right moment by moment. Everything demonstrated is always an invitation. Some couples feel at ease in their naked skin, others prefer to remain partially clothed. All choices are fully respected.

Our role is to support participants in slowing down, attuning to sensation and energy, and cultivating presence. The focus is on connection rather than performance, awareness rather than perfection.

We also consciously make space for emotions. When emotions are met with acceptance and allowed to be part of the experience of touch, they often become gateways to profound release and healing.

Many participants are surprised to discover how naturally healing their touch already is. They realise they don’t need to be experts or professionals to create experiences that are deeply nourishing, grounding, and pleasurable.

People often discover the power of giving without expectation, how liberating it feels to offer loving touch not as a transaction, but as presence. In doing so, they reconnect with something deeply innate: the body’s ability to hold, soothe, and love.

Participants often describe the workshop as magical, deeply healing, and profoundly meaningful. Many speak of how safe, seen, and free they felt, how vulnerability, sensuality, and emotion were welcomed without judgment.

People are frequently surprised by the depth of transformation: emotional release, renewed joy, reconnection to vitality and pleasure. We hear stories of grief softening into love, fear melting into trust, and touch becoming a language of care and presence.

We are often reflected by the way we hold space, balancing structure with softness, guidance with gentleness, depth with play. The feedback consistently shows that this work goes far beyond technique. It is about remembering how to be fully alive in the body, open in the heart, and connected to one another.

Let’s reconnect to and remember something deeply simple and profoundly human: how alive, connected, and at home we can feel in our bodies when we slow down, listen, and meet loving touch with presence.

That loving, conscious touch is not something reserved for experts or special moments, but an innate capacity we all carry, one that can soften the nervous system, open the heart, and deepen intimacy with ourselves and with others.

The day begins by gently welcoming everyone into the space and gathering in a grounded opening circle. This is where safety is established: we speak openly about boundaries, consent, privacy, and personal agency. Participants are invited to arrive fully in their bodies, to share how they’re feeling emotionally and physically and to voice anything they wish to bring into the space. This initial check-in sets the tone for a day rooted in presence, trust and respect.

From there, the journey moves into embodied learning. Ebru opens the teaching with a live demonstration, working with a model while the group observes. This allows participants to attune not just to technique, but to energy, pacing, and quality of touch. Couples are then guided step by step into practice, supported closely as they begin exploring the work in their own bodies.

After a short break, the second demonstration follows, led by Rubens, again paired with guided practice. Each segment builds gently on the last, allowing confidence, sensitivity, and connection to deepen organically.

The latter part of the day opens into a free-flow practice session. Here, participants integrate what they’ve learned in a way that feels natural to them, exploring at their own rhythm rather than following a fixed sequence. The workshop closes with a heartfelt closing circle, where reflections and insights are shared, and the experience is consciously woven into everyday life.

We previously offered massage tables, but have since moved to floor mats in a bigger space, which we’ve found create a more relaxing and grounding atmosphere for the experience, allowing more space and comfort for participants.

Our workshops are designed to be intimate, comfortable, and highly experiential. Each couple is provided with a large, comfortable mat so you have enough personal space to relax and feel as though you have your own private area throughout the workshop. We also provide warmed massage oils and oil warmers, which add an extra level of comfort and help create a calm, welcoming atmosphere.

One of the things that makes our workshop unique is the use of live demonstrations. We work with live models so participants can first observe the techniques being performed in real time. This allows you to clearly see the movements, rhythm, and flow before practicing yourselves. After the demonstration, we guide you step by step so you can follow along at your own pace while receiving support and guidance throughout the process.

While you will learn practical massage techniques, including body-to-body, the workshop goes beyond technique alone. We also explore the importance of presence, conscious touch, and communication, helping couples develop a deeper connection through touch. Our intention is not only to teach skills, but to help you experience how touch can become a powerful tool for relaxation, intimacy, and connection.

The group setting allows for a supportive and respectful environment where couples can feel comfortable learning, asking questions, and exploring together. By the end of the workshop, most participants leave not only with new techniques, but with a deeper understanding of how to create meaningful, connected experiences through touch.

Like most ticketing services, a small booking fee applies. We split this cost evenly between you and us. We use Humanitix, a ticketing platform that turns the fees into something meaningful by directing its profits to charity. With a focus on supporting some of the world’s most disadvantaged children, 100% of Humanitix’s profits go towards organisations providing education, healthcare, and life’s basic necessities.

We are an inclusive space that warmly welcomes people of all genders and sexual orientations, and we’re proud to have hosted same-sex couples in our workshops.

Based on participant feedback and what we’ve found creates the best flow and learning experience, we typically guide mixed-gender pairs through a specific sequence. Usually, the woman begins by working on the man, as guided by Ebru. This approach helps the receiver drop into relaxation early on, which often allows the giver to feel more confident, present, and at ease. Later, when Rubens leads, the roles reverse. His demonstrations incorporate more strength, leverage, and body-to-body movements, which can be easier to demonstrate using a larger body frame—traditionally the man working on the woman.

That said, this structure is simply a guideline—not a rule.

Same-sex couples are absolutely welcome, and you are encouraged to adapt the experience in a way that feels natural for you. You are free to choose who starts, switch roles whenever you like, and explore the techniques in a way that suits your dynamic, comfort level, and physicality.

Our teaching focuses on principles rather than rigid roles, so everything you learn can be applied regardless of gender. We’re also always available during the workshop to offer personalised guidance and adjustments to ensure both partners feel confident and supported.

Above all, our priority is that every participant feels safe, respected, and fully at ease to explore, learn, and connect.

Refund Policy

Full payment is required to secure your place.

If you cancel more than 30 days before the workshop, 75% of your payment will be refunded.

Cancellations within 30 days are non-refundable.

In exceptional circumstances, your place may be transferred to a future workshop.

By paying for the session, you indicate your agreement to these cancellation terms.

We have a WhatsApp group to help you find a partner for the workshop. It was created to make matchmaking smooth and stress-free. Connect, chat and find your match at your own pace.

*We can’t guarantee you will find a suitable partner but the group has been helpful for many participants.

Anyone wanting to learn or deepen in tantric massage. All genders & orientations welcome. Come with a partner, friend, or lover. No experience needed, just curiosity & an open heart.